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BrendaVN

Created On: 05/28/2008 03:54:37

congratulations on your book signings and contacts sounds wonderful! Cheers, Sower of seeds BrendaVn
Feedback from Survivor_BeckyConrad: HI, Brenda,
Thanks for stopping by and for your comments. Yes, it was wonderful!
Best regards,
Becky Conrad


healandforgive

Created On: 05/11/2008 13:31:53

Hi Becky!

Happy Mother's Day to you too!

Warmly,
Nancy

BrendaVN

Created On: 04/02/2008 17:09:38

Hi Becky I guess you have been busy signing books! Keep up the good work- no doubt you will, cheers have a great day. BrendaVN
Feedback from Survivor_BeckyConrad: Hi, Brenda, Thanks for stopping by. I do have a book signing this Sat. locally and I am looking forward to it. The newspaper did a story on me on Monday, so hopefully it will generate more visitors to my website and more sales.
Blessings to you, my AN friend.
Have a great week.
Becky


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Created On: 03/25/2008 09:38:21

an Easter Celebration
I love the content about the Lord...did you just write it before Easter...great choice of words and flow. Great job!!
Feedback from Survivor_BeckyConrad: Hi, Thanks for stopping by and for your uplifting comments. And yes, I wrote it in the early morning the week of Easter.
Peace, Joy, and Laughter to you.
Thanks again,
Becky


BrendaVN

Created On: 03/19/2008 22:42:39

A wonderful Easter invitation to know the -King who so patiently waits! Why do- we- wait so long - to avail for the best? Sadly time will end- and as you say -where we will be is determined by what we chose!
Lovely, Kind regards, Becky keep the colors flying high.
BrendaVN
Feedback from Survivor_BeckyConrad: Hi, Brenda, Praise to Him always! He is the ultimate counselor, leader, confidant, and my best friend. I could not live my life without Him. Only He knows my imperfections and I work on those, daily!
Thanks so much!
Becky


SierrasMom

Created On: 03/19/2008 10:58:10

Hi Becky! As always, your heart shines through your words. An Easter Celebrationemits your profound devotion. A beautiful piece, because it's from the heart of a beautiful person.
Feedback from Survivor_BeckyConrad: Thanks so much for your comments and uplifting words of praise. He deserves it all! Blessings to you and yours this Easter.
Becky


JamesGoiJr

Created On: 03/19/2008 10:33:34

An Easter Celebration: It's a very strong, direct piece of writing. I enjoyed reading it. Good stuff!
Feedback from Survivor_BeckyConrad: Hi, James, Thanks for the uplifting comments. Happy and blessed Easter to you and yours.
Warm regards,
Becky


dollslikeus

Created On: 03/19/2008 07:03:16

I like your easter celebration good job Becky I am going to my sons in Columbus for the holiday
Feedback from Survivor_BeckyConrad: Thank you so much. Have a great Easter celebration with your son and a safe trip.
Warm regards, Becky


BrendaVN

Created On: 03/17/2008 23:42:35
Edited By BrendaVN On: 03/17/2008 23:43:13


Thanks for dropping by Becky. Hope you are well. I am in the process of selling our home! Life is rather hectic and sometimes up side down! But we'll get there- where-ever that is Have a great day,
BrendaVN oh by the way I love your dog!
Feedback from Survivor_BeckyConrad: Hi, Brenda,
Clara is a great dog. She loves to fetch her ball every night, rain, sleet, snow, etc., plus play with her favorite Beagle, Lucy.
Have a great week and Happy Blessed Easter!
Becky


BrendaVN

Created On: 03/10/2008 18:52:43

Hi Becky,
I like your writing Becky. I just read facade- Boy it did bring up some indignant feelings in me! Well written,
Cheers, BrendaVN
Feedback from Survivor_BeckyConrad: Hi, Brenda,
Thanks for your comments! Yes. "Indignant feelings" indeed. And he thought he was so superior to everyone! LOL.
Becky


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Member Since 09/11/2007
Last Online 10/10/2008
Last Updated 07/31/2008
Gender: Female
City: Carrollton
State/Province: Ohio
Country: United States
Genre(s): Memoirs, Domestic Violence, Abuse,Survival, Autobiographies, Poetry, Non-fiction.

About Me

About Me:

Dear visitors,
At this time I want to thank you for stopping by. Due to the increase in my activities with book signings and involvment with the CCAPL, I am not able to post daily or weekly on this website but will do so when I can. Thank you for your understanding. 

About me: Who am I? I am a person who cares deeply for other people and animals who have suffered violence and abuse against them, now or in the past. Plus, I am an avid animal lover. 

I am currently a W.I.S.H. (Women In Safe Homes) Facilitator at my local Victim Assitance office. I have worked there for almost four years. 

I hold group sessions weekly, trying to give encouragement to women who are going through the court system and are victims of violence and abuse against them. Some of the women who come to the group sessions are still reeling from the emotional roller-coaster of abuse and violence in their past. Suvivors come to the group sessions to try and get their lives back---to feel good about themselves---to discover that they are worthy of a better life---a life without violence and abuse. No one deserves it. Especially the children.

I care deeply about animals too. I have had them all my life. The joy they bring to me and my husband knows no bounds. They are constantly entertaining us. When we are sick, they are there to comfort us. When we are down, they are there to lift our spirits with their antics. When we are sad, they are there giving us comfort without even knowing it. 

I am President of a new non-profit organization (501 (c) (3) in my area. We just started in January 2007.  We are trying to raise funds to buy land and get started on building a greatly needed animal shelter for our rural county. There is not an animal shelter for sixty miles, and so many animals need loving "forever homes." We have a mission. Grant funding will be pursued with diligence and vigor once we acquire land! 
We are the: Carroll County Animal Protection League (CCAPL). We have a lot of valuable information on our web site and are adding new things all the time to help people with their pets. Our website is: http://www.CCAPL.webs.com which is through freewebs.com. Check it out.

I became an author while attending college for the first time in my life at the age of 55. I did a thesis on "Domesic Violence" and it opened new doors for me. 

College was a rewarding experience. From that experience, I went on to become a published author. Is my writing great? I will let you decide.

I learned so much in the beginning with my first book, THE DOOR OF FAÇADE. Most of all, do not proof your own works and take your time! Since then, I have learned so much in the art of writing and I try to implement what I have learned in my works today. (I'm always learning.)

Being an author has been a journey of ups and downs, rewards and dissappointments, but mainly the rewards have been many, especially those who have read my books and have let me know the books have helped them. Even in this day and age, there are those who have not finished High School. How very sad.

I love pursuing the on-going trials and errors of educating myself to be a better author. At every author workshop or every author conference I attend, they continue to lift my spirts so high, I soar! 

There is so much to learn, and so much to share. I have even conducted  some workshops in my area to help other struggling writers/authors get inspired and reach for the stars. "The more we know the more we grow."

The rewards of the feedback that I get from those who have read my books, THE DOOR OF FAÇADE and the sequel, A BETTER DAY DAWNING, have been my continued inspiration to do more to help others. I am currently working on another book, and I hope to have it released in 2008 or the spring of 2009. 

I have two missions in life. 
One, to educate the public on domestic violence and abuse . Visit the ODVN (Ohio Domestic Violence Network at: www.ODVN.org Great website for resources dealing with domestic violence, abuse, stalking, rape, and so much more.
Two, to help animals. I am so blessed! 
Thank you for visiting me here at  www.authornation.com . Visit my other web site as well. www.beckyconrad.com . 
I recently joined a website called: www.readerscircle.org  
It is a website to help authors promote their books. Check it out!

Best regards, 
Survivor_Becky Conrad

My books are available to purchase through: www.amazon.comwww.bordersbookstores.com , www.bbotw.com , www.BarnesandNoble.com , www.waldenbooks.com , Target stores, and through my web site:  www.beckyconrad.com
My web site shows where my signed copies of my books are available.
NOTE: If you order my books through my website, (use PayPal),I ship them for free anywhere in the U.S. Thank you.

My Bookshelf

What's on my bookshelf:
Bancroft, Lundy, Why Does he Do That?: Inside the minds of angry and controlling men. New York, New York: Berkley Publishing Group - © 2002 (An absolute must read for anyone suffering now, or in the past with domestic violence and abuse in any way. Also, an incredible eye-opener for counselors, judges, law enforcement, mediators and advocates! Two-thumbs up!) 

De Becker, Gavin, The Gift of Fear: Survival Signals that Protect us From Violence Canada. Little, Brown & Co. Ltd. ©1997 (Absolute must read for anyone!) 

De Becker, Gavin, Protecting the Gift: Keeping Children and Teenagers Safe (and Parents Sane) New York, NY. Dell Publ.. ©1999 (Great Book and one every parent should read!) 

De Becker, Gavin, The Gift of Fear: Survival Signals that Protect us From Violence Canada. Little, Brown & Co. Ltd. ©1997 (Absolute must read for anyone!) 

Jones, Ann, Next Time She’ll Be Dead: Battering and How to Stop It Boston, MA: Beacon Press ©1994 (Excellent book!) 

Smith, Judith R., Time to Break Free: Meditations for the First 100 Days after Leaving an Abusive Relationship Center City, Minn: Hazelden ©1999 (Wonderful little book!)

Smith, Judith R., Time to Fly Free: Meditations for Those who have Left an Abusive Relationship Center City, Minn: Hazelden ©2001 (Very uplifting little book!) 

Biebel, David, If God is So Good, Why do I Hurt So Bad? Grand Rapids, MI: Revell, Felming H. ©1989 (Helps with the “Why?”- Very inspirational and helpful book to read!) 

Plus, I love books on animal stories, novellas on the settlement of the old West, fiction, and the Civil War.

The newest addition: 
Briggen  by Ann B. Keller, Author/Screenwriter- A great science-fiction novel. The first in her trilogy.
 

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I am a very energetic person on many missions. As I travel this journey called "life," may I have the energy, compassion, and wisdom to help others and animals in any way I can.
Be blessed this day, it is a gift.
Becky :)
www.beckyconrad.com

– Tuesday, August 19 2008 –
"My Wish For You" by Becky Conrad (copyright 2008) I wish for you rainy days, knowing the sun will shine through. I wish for you sunny day...
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REVIEW FOR THE DOOR OF FAÇADE -  BY BECKY CONRAD from Ann B. Keller, Author/Screenwriter. How many of us wear a social mask...
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– Wednesday, June 25 2008 –
I was priviledged and honored to have Jeff Gallantin, Assistant Editor of the "WeSTLIFE" N. Olmsted, Ohio newspaper, give me an intervi...
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– Monday, May 26 2008 –
Hello everyone, I would like to take this opporunity to share some things with you about book signings.  When I go to a book signing, I hav...
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"A LIFETIME AGO" —by Becky Conrad A lifetime ago, I became your child. You nurtured me and held me, and often made me smile. As I grew...
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"With Thee---It is Possible" - Excerpt from A BETTER DAY DAWNING - By Becky Conrad (Copyright August 2006) Into my life so many tramped thro...
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"Something to Ponder"  ©Look in the mirror. Who do you see? Do you see someone broken beyond repair? Or, do you see someone worth ...
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Poem Excerpt from A BETTER DAY DAWNING) by Becky Conrad (copyright 8/2006)"Tears of the Soul" by Becky Conrad The tears that fall are soft a...
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An excerpt from: A BETTER DAY DAWNING - by Becky Conrad "Tears of Coins" by Becky Conrad. (Copyright August 2006)If I had a coin for every t...
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To the many victims, who have become survivors of domestic violence, abuse, low self-esteem, low self-worth---may you continue to survive and con...
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August 30, 2008 -Waldenbooks, Strongsville, Oh.
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July 26, 2008 - Becky Conrad, Waldenbooks, Alliance, Oh.
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B&N Oberlin College Bookstore, Oberlin, Ohio
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B&N Oberlin College Bookstore, Oberlin, Ohio
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Border's Books & Music - Columbus, Ohio
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The Cats - from A BETTER DAY DAWNING
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High-five from Clara
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Siesta time!
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04/23/2008 05:37:16Re:"A Lifetime ago" - by Becky ConradPoetry328
02/16/2008 07:06:41Re:\'Stack Overload\' pop up windowAuthorNation.com Questions250
01/30/2008 07:49:10Free Web SitesWeb Sites308
01/08/2008 12:56:32\"Skeletons\" - by survivor_beckyconradPoetry157
12/15/2007 14:50:42Grudges - a one-liner from Becky ConradBest One-Liners152
12/15/2007 14:37:13A New Dawn - a one-liner from Becky ConradPoetry154
12/09/2007 09:23:41\"Busy Hands\" - a one-liner from Becky ConradBest One-Liners167
12/02/2007 14:32:41"A Lifetime ago" - by Becky ConradPoetry328
12/02/2007 07:11:30With Thee---It is Possible by Becky ConradPoetry143
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My Bookstore

Storefront: Buy It! # 1THE DOOR OF FAÇADE  - by Becky Conrad - Memoirs of a young girl's life. Many choices made for her against her will.
This book could save a life! Anyone reading this book can easily recognize the signs of an abusive and coercive relationship. This book is graphic, detailed, and not sugar-coated. It is reality and a true memoir of a horrific journey.
Available at Infinity Publishing,  Amazon.com,  Border's Bookstores in Cuyahoga Falls and Medina, Ohio, Barnes & Noble Bookstore at Oberlin College, Oberlin, Ohio, West Liberty State College in West Liberty, West Virginia, Waldenbooks at the Great Northern Mall, N. Olmsted, Ohio, and through my website at: www.beckyconrad.com. I will sign and ship a book purchased through my personal website for free anywhere in the United States.


Buy It! # 2 -  A BETTER DAY DAWNING -by Becky Conrad - The continued memoirs.
This book  the sequel, is a memoir and a journey of struggles, choices, good and bad, coming out of the darkness and into the light, giving and getting forgiveness, moving forward on the hard road of life, experiencing the trials and tribulations and the pain of love, yet learning what it is to make it real and rewarding. 
 Available at Infinity Publishing,  Amazon.com, Border's Bookstores in Cuyahoga Falls and Medina, Ohio, Barnes & Noble Bookstore at Oberlin College, Oberlin, Ohio, West Liberty State College in West Liberty, West Virginia, and through my website at: www.beckyconrad.com. I will sign and ship a book purchased through my personal website for free anywhere in the United States.

   

1: Buy It!

Title: THE DOOR OF FAÇADE
Price: $21.95
ISBN#: 0741421305
Buy It Here: www.Infinity Publishing.com
Abstract: THE DOOR OF FAÇADE - Memoirs of: A Love-hate relationship.
 
Becky, a young naive woman is attracted to an older man. He sweeps her off her feet. She believes this is her prince and White Knight who is going to save her from a horrific nightmare of recovery and finally have a good life. After being deceived and coerced by another man who forced her to choose, along with her mother, to make a life-changing decision, is she really in a loving relationship?

A whirlwind relationship started on trust, respect, and unconditional love has her making many choices and changes to please her prince. Could her prince be a wolf in sheep's clothing? Can she fix him and stop his rage and abuse?

Lies-deception-infidelity-rage-love-hate-and survival instincts all rolled into one life of becoming a survivor. Her life and journey with her prince will change her life forever. 
Could you be her? Even now?  Buy this book. It could save a  life.  www.beckyconrad.com    
Reviews: REVIEW FOR THE DOOR OF FAÇADE - BY BECKY CONRAD
Review by Ann B. Keller - Author/Screenwriter - July 13, 2008.

How many of us wear a social mask, putting forth the façade, the face of what we want others to see?  The title of this novel is well suited to the story itself.  From the moment that sweet young Becky meets handsome and rich Bob Dillough, she’s swept along on a romantic tsunami that promises she’ll live happily ever after.  Becky’s “prince”, however, is far from perfect.

Although Bob wines and dines his young bride, he is severely flawed.  He drinks too much, lies, cheats on Becky and has more excuses than a tardy high school student.  As Bob’s behavior turns increasingly violent, Becky starts looking for a way out of her predicament, even though she is assailed by guilt for her failing marriage.  I held my breath when Bob literally shoved a gun into Becky’s face!  For a few terrible moments, her life hung in the balance.  Thankfully, Becky was able to escape Bob’s clutches and this book is a strong statement against domestic violence and abuse in all its forms.  What makes The Door of Façade all the more compelling is that it is a true story - Becky’s story.  I can’t wait to read her second novel to learn the good news!

Ann B. Keller, Author/Screenwriter

Review by a Victim’s Advocate:
I have had the pleasure to read,
The Door of Façade. Becky. Your "story" is truly touching. I could never feel the sadness you felt, but I felt extreme sorrow for you. Sad to say, I could not put the book down. I commend you for your true bravery and courage to overcome such tragedy. The book was great, and I am looking forward to reading the sequel. I know your story will inspire those who are suffering in a domestic violence world!" Heidi


Writer’s Digest 15th Annual International Self-Published Book Awards Commentary. 2007 Author: Becky Conrad Title: THE DOOR OF FAÇADE Category: Nonfiction Judge: 45 Judge’s commentary: What did you like best about this book? Ms. Conrad writes from the heart with such direct honesty and sincerity that throughout we readers not only pull for her, but we mentally urge her along, wishing her strength to leave her husband, which she ultimately is able to do. Women especially will understand (I do) what she experienced, how difficult her situation was in those days. Through the author’s vivid narrative we feel this brave women’s pain. The dialog is effective, moving the story along and creating images of the characters, particularly herself and her husband; the reader will hate the man and be outraged at this deceitful, unacceptable behavior. A memoir, the book validates the author’s plight. Her desperate experiences can also be a cautionary tale for other abused women. Her honest recall is commendable. The cover is telling, with the door ajar, and what one finds behind it. “FAÇADE” accurately describes the author’s marriage. The author is a good fluid writer. Hopefully she will continue her craft.

2: Buy It!

Title: A BETTER DAY DAWNING
Price: $29.95
ISBN#: 074143363X
Buy it Here: Infinity Publishing.com
Abstract: A BETTER DAY DAWNING- By Becky Conrad.  The continued memoirs. 

Out of the abyss of abuse, violence and darkness, Becky struggles to move forward. She stumbles and falls on the hard road of life. A will to survive and self-determination pulls at her inner being as she struggles to reach for the faint glimmer of light that could possibly lift her out of the void of the deep, dark pit she is in. 

Can she ever find herself? Forgive herself? Can she ever find true love? Can she ever feel forgiveness? Can she repair her torn and tattered soul? 

A new journey awaits her, full of surprises, yet also the journey deals with heartache and pain, and yet even more lies and deception. Will she ever find her daughter and feel forgiveness? Can she forgive her mother? This book is a memoir of her journey out of the darkness. This book was written to help other survivors learn and grow in a world filled with uncertainty and with many twists and turns on the hard road of life.

www.beckyconrad.com - Becky's personal website with valuable information to help someone dealing with domestic violence and abuse, now or in the past.
Reviews:

Review of A BETTER DAY DAWNING - By Becky Conrad
Review given by- "Georgia"


An inspiration to many.I read Becky's second book in five days! It was awesome! So much knowledge and information about domestic violence and abuse to tell others about. I loved all the poems too. The ending was incredible! I am so happy for her! Keep writing, Becky. You are an inspiration to so many! She taught me so much about forgiveness. Great job! God bless always, Georgia



Writer’s Digest 15th Annual International Self-Published Book Awards 2007 Author: Becky Conrad Title: A BETTER DAY DAWNING Category: Nonfiction Judge: 45 Judge’s Commentary: What did you like best about this book? If someone has read the first book (as I did), she would wish for more, and want to know how Ms. Conrad did on her own, how she grew, how she dealt with the inevitable problems she faced, as only on can expect from an abusive situation. So many women can relate to the topic (me included), and readers will be relieved following her travails that there is real hope, even light coming out of the dark, as the title affirms. Realistically we readers know the author would have a difficult time on her own, and that she’d be haunted by Bob and we’d see him again. We’re relieved she finds a little peace, and a new, trustworthy, devoted mate. Ms. Conrad’s voice is consistent throughout and her dialogue is authentic. A natural writer obviously, with continued practice she will get better and better. No doubt the author found her writing very cathartic during those years of horror and beyond. The title is a good one.

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